Do All Relationship Problems Stem From Poor Communication as claimed by relationship experts?
from Communication Problems?
According to many relationship experts, all relationship problems stem from poor communication. Of course it sounds very logical that: “You can’t communicate while you’re checking your iPhone, watching TV, or flipping through the latest publication.” This may or may not be truth in an unresolved relationship problem.
Here are some of the Relationship Problem-Solving Strategies suggested by experts:
• It has been said to make an actual appointment with each other. If you live together, put your cell phones on vibrate, if you have small children, put the kids to bed, and let voicemail pick up your calls.
• Go to a public spot like the library, park, or restaurant where you’d be embarrassed if anyone saw you raise your voice and screaming.
• Set up rules, not to interrupt until the other person is through speaking, and use derogatory phrases of accusations.
• Show you’re listening. Don’t involve or performing other chores during the meeting. Nod often for agreement and confirmation that you heard the message.
Even though those are well and excellent suggestions with the best intentions, it may or may not affect the relationship problems let alone resolve it.
There must be more specific strengthening of the weaknesses associated with relationship problematic situations. Without strengthening the internal and external dynamic weaknesses of the relationship and its boundaries, there always will be struggles with poor communication as mentioned. Any weakness of the individual involved must also be strengthened. As far as verbal communications, when it is more than it is needed, it will backfire and lead to further augments and misinterpretations. Relationship problems can always, without exception be resolved, through the increase of nonverbal communication, which is telepathic.
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